Grieving the loss of your baby is difficult every day. However when big events/triggers come up the grief can be overwhelming. The weeks leading up to my EDD, and the day of, were really hard. With the constant love and support from family and friends I was able to get through this milestone. Their words and support boosted me up. I needed a boost over and over again because it is hard to get through depression. I found myself pulling out of it but then heading right back. It was the words below that I received from family and friends that helped me pull out. Even just checking in helped me get through it. Today I am feeling at peace and I am thankful for the support and patience.
"You are a great mom and Evangeline is a lucky little girl"
"Evangeline fought hard because she loves you as her mom"
"I was honored to have met her, thank you for sharing her"
"I'll never forget the moment that I held her"
"I am sad that she is gone"
"I feel your pain and am right here with you"
"She will never be forgotten"
"She's so cute and special to me"
"I think about her all of the time"
"You'll always have her, she is yours for eternity"
All of these words bring peace to me. I can never hear them enough. When I am down I run these conversations in my head in order to motivate myself.
Thank you for going through this journey with me and not giving up. It will never be over but encourgagement like this helps me find peace <3
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